Live your Life TURNED ON.

We help YOU restore intimacy in your relationships and ignite real passion in your sex life without feeling the burden of another thing on your to do list.

Have You Had Enough Yet?

Are you feeling stuck, burnt out, uninspired and disconnected from yourself ? Have you gone down the self help rabbit hole and still feel like something is missing?

Yeah, we did too.

Let us empower YOU with concrete tools to know yourself more fully, experience more pleasure and lead a more purposeful life.


FOR THE MASCULINE

  • Learn how to lead your relationship powerfully from a place of embodied integrity

  • Learn how to create more capacity in your body and your nervous system

  • Learn physical and meditative practices that make you more trustable as a partner or lover

  • Learn how to lean into your partner's complaint and lead your partner to sacred, divine love

  • Learn how to master the art of command and make the exploration of dark energy a sacred and sublime experience

FOR THE FEMININE

  • Learn how to communicate deep desires from a place that inspires and evokes the best in your partner

  • Learn how to run pleasure through your own body that brings energy to your sex and relationship

  • Learn how to offer your heart in any moment, in a way that not only feels deeply authentic, but also creates more intimacy, even when you're angry, hurt, jealous or heart-broken

  • Learn to reveal and gift withheld desires and dark sexual energy in service of love


Reasons why people work with us:

About Us

  • Missy

    Healer, Teacher of Sacred Sex and Intimacy, Women’s Group Leader, Speaker & Devoted student of Life and Love.

  • Matthew

    Teacher of Sacred Sex and Intimacy, Men’s Group facilitator and leader of workshops for men, women and couples.

  • Our Journey

    We get it….Sharing our lives as parents, lovers and business partners, we are always reflecting and practicing “letting go” of our own fears that challenge our intimacy as a couple. We promise that if you give yourself permission to peek inside, you will find that we hold a space where you can explore yourself and your relationship…Free of judgment and manipulation, and full of love and mutual respect.

Ways to Work with Us

“This work changed the way we show up for ourselves and each other. We can’t wait to share it with you”

-Matt & Missy

What others are saying…

  • Missy confidently reassured me that together we would find the place where I was “stuck,” and fix it. Her extensive knowledge of the body, coupled with her beliefs in the power of healing, and positive thinking, gave me a clear perspective and confidence in my recovery.

    Pam, CA

  • This work not only saved our relationship, it helped each of us grow and heal as individuals. Before we started we were so stressed out we forgot what it was to feel connected. They helped us remember the love that still existed between us and to be devoted to that .

    Ralph & Renee, CA

  • Missy is the most incredible resource to help me with the expansion of my mind and the healing of my body. She is engaging and professional and showcases her brilliance through her work.

    Neal, CA

  • I have become so in tune with my body that I have the ability to take care of it in new ways. I can breathe again and I feel empowered to help my body and my mind through connecting to it all. Missy created a safe space for my mind and body to fully show up in order to heal. She is a saving grace, an extraordinary healer and beautiful soul. I am so grateful for her! "

    Danielle, CA

  • This couple is truly a dynamic duo. They are a perfect blend of real talk and loving compassion. The practices they guided us through were game changing for our marriage. We are eternally grateful to have them in our lives.

    Chris & Kelly, CO

  • We had been through a tremendous amount of strain in our marriage for many years when a friend referred us to see Matt and Missy. I knew we were in the right place from the first phone conversation. They felt very grounding and had a way that allowed us to open up like we never have before in our relationship. The depth and physical connection that we have now is more than I had ever expected to feel in this relationship. We will always be big fans of these two gifted humans.

    Mike & Kayla, CA

  • Matt is as authentic as it comes. His presence and passion for this work is palpable from the first moment you speak with him. I had always found ways to make businesses successful, yet I had failed in relationship after relationship until I worked with Matt. Through him pushing me to commit and his intuitive coaching I was able to take responsibility for the way I was showing up with women and manifest the relationship that had evaded me until I was 45 years old. Now I am engaged to an amazing woman and inspired even more in my work.

    Richard, CA

  • Matt and Missy always refer to sex as sacred, and now we really understand why. I would guess that most people that have not done this type of work never experience this type of ecstasy on a regular basis when having sex with their partner. I am still not sure if it is the eye gazing, the breath, the honesty that we have shared with each other, but whatever formula Matt and Missy used to guide us to this place in our sex life and our relationship, give me more please. I will drink it all down. Everyone should be so blessed to experience these two unique souls.

    Alexis & Eric, TX

  • Matt is definitely my guru!(He will not agree or be happy that I said that, but it's true for me). When I started this journey with Matt I was stressed out, uninspired with my marriage, and even considered leaving my family. With his no nonsense, yet loving guidance, I was able to make some huge shifts in my life and my relationship with my wife. I can show up consistently and be that trustable man for my wife, yet still experience the feeling of being wild and free at the same time. My wife thanks you and I am forever grateful.

    Mike, NY

How do I know if this work is for me?

I am a YES to this work if….

  • I am craving a more meaningful relationship with romantic partner and the world

  • I am willing and ready to push through self limitations

  • I am willing a ready to put in the work to create deeper and mindblowing sexual experiences

  • I am willing and ready to let go of people and experiences that are not aligned 

  • Gentlemen: I am willing and ready to own the responsibility in my role as a leader, father, husband & lover

  • Ladies: I am willing and ready to surrender, reveal my heart and feel sensually alive in my body 

I am a NO to this work if…

  • I am looking for a quick fix

  • I am not ready to invest my time, money and energy into myself

  • I am not ready to challenge my identity as a victim

  • I am not ready to set aside time for myself to practice and grow

  • I am not ready to go into the dark and trust the unknown 

  • I am not willing to connect and to express deep emotions inside of me

  • I am not ready right now to meet the present moment, find acceptance and take radical responsibility